Embracing Beauty and How I’m Romanticizing my Life Lately

This post is about embracing beauty and how I’m romanticizing my life lately. If you like this, make sure to jump into my free VIBEY Telegram Group, where I share random RIFFS, free tips & advice for women ready to create a freedom based life & business. You can also follow my life & travels on Instagram @thefemme_ceo and DM me to say hey! PS - if you’re looking for intimate sisterhood and high touch support -  I have a 5 month Mastermind called Ascension for coaches & healers looking to scale to 6-figures and beyond. If you’re looking for year-long inspiration and mentorship, I have a year long experience called Becoming where you get access to ALL of my programs, a private Telegram community for sisterhood, AND monthly group biz Q+A sessions. I would love to connect with you now or in the future. To becoming Radiant + Rich, Laura Niese.

It’s LIBRAAA SZN - This season is all about slowing down and appreciating the beauty & small moments that make life truly magical.

If you want to elevate your mood over the next month, I highly recommend giving this episode a listen!

In this episode we cover:

➝ What does it mean to “romanticize” your life?

➝ My top favorite ways you can start romanticizing your life now as it relates to your health, business, lifestyle + relationships

➝ Embracing wealth as a state of being

LISTEN TO EPISODE 5

SO, what the heck does “romanticize your life” mean?!

It’s about doing things that make you feel good and learning to enjoy the little moments in life. In business we just want to reach our goals but if you aren’t slowing down enough to be grateful for where you’re at right now and feel the abundance that you have now, when you get to your “GOAL” you’re still not going to FEEL the abundance that you’re hoping to feel.

We want to slow down enough and appreciate the moments that we have NOW and then begin to COMPOUND THEM. It's about appreciating the small things. Slowing down, enjoying each moment, resting. 

It’s going to completely transform your life, your mood, and the abundance flowing to you.

Wealth is a STATE OF BEING. It’s a FEELING. You can have tons of money and not FEEL wealthy. 

We want to slow down and romanticize our life so that when the abundance comes, we feel grateful already so then it amplifies even more, versus reaching our goal, not feeling good enough, and then we want more, we get to the next goal, and it still doesn’t feel good enough.

Romanticizing your life is going to allow you to FEEL wealthy. 

The first step to romanticizing your life is SLOWING DOWN. 

Learn how to slow down and breathe. When you feel rushed and overwhelmed and feel like there isn’t enough time in the day, BREATH! We are in such a RUSH to get things done and get to where we want to go in life… the money goals and the achievements, but TIME is the only thing that we can’t get back so why are we RUSHING and trying to reach a certain destination FAST. When you get to the end of your life and look back, you’re not going to be like omg I wish I had more MONEY in my bank account because you can’t take money with you. You’re going to be like OMGGG I wish I had MORE TIME! SO, romanticizing my life involves slowing TF down.

When you switch from task to task (gym to home) once you get home, LIE DOWN. Ground into your body. BREATH. Calm your nervous system. After you get done with a client call, lie down and breathe. 

With slowing down in each moment comes Sensuality + being PRESENT! How are you bringing your SENSES into each moment? Instead of scarfing down your coffee and your meals, really appreciate and use your senses. Smelling the coffee. Feeling gratitude. Sipping it. Making each moment an EXPERIENCE! 

The second way you can romanticize your life is by AMPLIFYING YOUR EXPERIENCES.

How can I make this moment EVEN BETTER? Amplifying the good. How can I hold onto this feeling longer? 

You aren’t always going to have good days. Some days you’re going to be an emotional wreck. On those days, I recommend not pushing yourself and trying to “fix” the sadness. The days that you are sad - you can make those days beautiful. You can pour yourself a luxe glass of wine, put on a sad movie or a feelsy playlist, your fave pj’s and cry. But it can still be beautiful.

RADIANCE is you FEELING YOUR FEELINGS. The more you allow yourself to feel your feelings, the more radiant you become AND you stay younger.  Feeling your feelings keeps you young. 

THIRD WAY TO ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE: 

Look at each part of your life and ask yourself how can you romanticize this part of your life more?

Relationship Ideas:

Have a sex date once per week

Cook dinner- hello fresh

Go on a date/lunch date.

Movie night - popcorn, red wine. 

Bring me coffee in bed Picnic.

Walks in nature. 

Dream together.

Wake up every day saying are you ready to have the best day?!

Health + Fitness Ideas: 

Buy new workout shorts or a gorg water bottle

Protein shakes - make a protein bowl and make it look gorgeous 

Pilates once per week

Add lemon to my water at home

Create your dream morning routine.

LIFESTYLE IDEAS

Books

Headway App

Host a fancy dinner party.

Dressing up just because. See yourself as a piece of art.

Makeup lesson done @MAC

Luxe pantsuit 

Create different Spotify Playlists for working out, PM routine, creativity, cleaning, etc.  

BIZ Ideas:

1. Get Ready every day.
2. Create a vision board.
3. Create the schedule that you want. 
4. Unplug for the weekend. 
5. Burn the candles/buy the luxe journal.
6. See your business as ART. Instead of rushing from thing to thing. Each thing you do is art! SLOW DOWN!

HOW BUSINESS WORKS AS AN EGO AUTHORITY IN HUMAN DESIGN

An Ego Authority is really rare at just 1% of the population.

I’m meant to run my biz based on how it FEELS for me!

It is SELFISH! It’s ALL ABOUT YOU! How you feel about it! 

How to align my life + business:  Any decision is about WHAT FEELS BEST FOR ME. How do I want to create programs, launch programs, run my business, and show up? It’s about - what is best FOR ME?!

I constantly am asking myself: DOES THIS FEEL BEST FOR ME?!

If you’re an EGO AUTHORITY, you’re not meant to do things based on what you “think” you should do. 

For me romanticizing my business looks like letting go of what everyone else is doing in their business and doing what FEELS the best for me!

I try not to second guess or compare myself to others. I like to be creative for creativities sake - not because it will bring me success or impresses people. 

There are a lot of women in the industry who are leading with their MONEY wins. It’s ALLLL about the money. But IDGAF about that. What is your purpose?! Your impact? 

We think that the money is going to make us FEEL amazing. But HAVING money in the bank doesn’t make you feel anything. It just makes you rich. 

I don’t really care how much you have in the bank. 

How are you LIVING? What experiences are you having?! I want to lead with my experiences and how much LIFE is in my life. It’s not about the money. 

For me to romanticize my life more I had to drop chasing the arbitrary income goals like $30K months and stop making MONEY the goal. I wanted to make the goal experiencing and living my life to the fullest. With all of my senses, being super present, feeling gratitude, making each experience a moment, romanticizing all the different areas of my life. 

We put $20K month as the goal but then when money lands in your account it doesn’t FEEL like anything. I sold my condo earlier this year and received a deposit of $41K and felt nothing. It’s not the money that is going to give us that FEELING we are craving... So why are we chasing a certain income goal each month or year… the money isn’t the goal.

So, what is the goal?

The goal is to EXPERIENCE LIFE. You can make any EXPERIENCE a moment. And each of those beautiful moments where you really dropped in FELT it, you get compound. 

Doing this for an entire month will completely transform your life. FEEL your way to abundance. 

For those of you who desire to tap into feelings of wealth, wealth as a state of being, and create a cyclone momentum towards your biggest dreams. Dreams that you never really allowed yourself to tap into because you’re like OMG that feels so far away HOW am I going to get there… 

I have a 14 day Telegram container called Femme Fortune that begins on 10/10. I will be dropping daily audios and NLP techniques and practices and activations for you to learn how you can tap into your personal power, eliminate sabotage, limiting beliefs, money sabotage, and start taking consistent action towards your biggest dreams from a space of feeling alive and on purpose. The biggest thing this container will give you is momentum and clarity. 

I’ve never run a container like this before I usually do my programs over Zoom with gorgeous canva slides - but sometimes it can be difficult with having clients all over the world and picking a time for the zoom call that works for everyone.

So, I’m making this container really accessible to everyone. I already dropped some prework in there! The girls inside are having so much fun! It’s a great community it actually was my best launch of an offer I ever had - 42 joined after just 48 hours!

I definitely want to record another podcast episode sharing the shifts I made with this launch.

If you have been wanting to really elevate your mindset and finally make shit happen in your life. And I’m not just talking comfort zone shit. I’m talking let’s dream big. Let’s create a luxe designer wardrobe - let’s get clear on our mission for the planet and the change we want to see in the world and our purpose and let’s travel first class and really see what we are made of. When you look back on your life, you’re going to wonder… did I really give it my all? Did I reach my edge? Could I have done more?

I want this program to empower you and ignite you!

The link to femme fortune is in the show notes and it begins on 10/10! I can’t wait. 

Sending you lots of love Happy Libra Szn!

See you in Femme Fortune or the next episode! 

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